My single most important responsibility to anyone is to be right with God - as far as it depends on me. Discernment is required in all circumstances and the suspension of judgment at almost all costs. The closer I get to anyone, the more messed up I find them to be - this is said with the humble acknowledgement that I am the most messed up of all.
kylie she allows me to be me without disowning me. the good, the bad, the ugly, mostly the latter. i make her smile by being me my default is meditation, remembering to breath, to be. Sometimes it's alright to just dance through life, sometimes I don't need to tough it.
God. I've been running lately. Feeling more Jesus than anything else from it. Pops up in the oddest, but most necessary places.